Dr. Sonya Howell Barrow is a retired U.S. Army Combat Veteran who served honorably and distinctively for over 26+ years in various organizations and deployments before retiring as a Chief Warrant Officer Five (CW5) in November 2018. She was born at Fort Gordon (previously known as Camp Gordon, now known as Fort Eisenhower), Georgia and raised between Augusta and Warrenton, Georgia. She is a mother of two adult sons, Jacques and DeShon Jr.
Dr. Sonya received her Doctor of Humane Letters from Mainseed Christian University (MCU) and achieved the credentials of Global Fellowship in Leadership Principles. As an Information Technology and Cyber Security professional, she earned her Master’s Degree in Cyber Security from the University of Maryland, University College (now known as University of Maryland Global Campus).
Since her retirement from the U.S. Army, Dr. Sonya has pursued her dream as a published author. She is an Amazon International Bestselling Author, Certified Life Coach, Founder of AuthorpreneurSonya , CEO and Owner of The SoJaDe Group, LLC and SoJaDe Publishing, LLC.
If Dr. Sonya isn’t reading, traveling, and spending time with family and friends, she is writing and motivating others by letting them know that the “glass is always half full, never half empty.” With her faith, strong will, and determination, she chooses to be a beacon of hope and strives to encourage others to live their best lives that are filled with confidence, self-awareness, and personal growth. Dr. Sonya provides a creative artistic space via her social media platforms and websites to showcase her non-fiction and fiction published works spanning across four distinct genres: Inspire and Motivate, Self-Help, Soldier Girl, and Entertainment.
“FIRE”
Offer readers encouraging quotes, journal guides, and non-fiction published works inspired by her unique tagline:
“Igniting the Joy and Love Within.”
FEARLESS
INSPIRED
RESILIENT
EMPOWERED
Offer readers tools and techniques used from personal experiences to help encourage self-nurturing, self-love, setting personal boundaries, and protecting the mental space.
“Grow boldly. Lead intentionally. Elevate Endlessly.”
GROWTH
LEADERSHIP
ELEVATION
Offer readers snippets of living the army Soldier Girl lifestyle.
“Stories of strength, service, and survival—from the boots on the ground to the battles behind the scenes.”
“TEA”
Offer readers laughter, enjoyment, and entertainment through fictional published works inspired by her unique tagline:
“Brewed with temptation. Blended with drama. Sipped one scandalous page at a time.”
TANTALIZING
ENCHANTING
ASCENDING
Readers will experience “Tantalizing” tales and “Enchanting” adventures that captivate their minds while “Ascending” their thoughts to new realms of laughter, entertainment, and enjoyment, offering a temporary escape from their daily lives.
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My inspirations were written with a purpose because they are centered on my tagline, “FIRE Igniting The Joy And Love Within. Be Fearless. Be Inspired. Be Resilient. Be Empowered.”
Each inspiration attempts to help ignite the burning desire that is inside each of us. It is a reminder for us to continue to live our best and blessed life. Because I am constantly igniting the joy and love within myself, I would like to share my FIRE Inspirations with you, my readers.
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My inspirations were written with a purpose because they are centered on my tagline, “FIRE Igniting The Joy And Love Within. Be Fearless. Be Inspired. Be Resilient. Be Empowered.”
Each inspiration attempts to help ignite the burning desire that is inside each of us. It is a reminder for us to continue to live our best and blessed life. Because I am constantly igniting the joy and love within myself, I would like to share my FIRE Inspirations with you, my readers.
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Now that you have enjoyed “SONYA’S LITTLE BOOK OF QUOTES A Coffee Table Guide of FIRE Inspirations, I hope you are ready to enjoy “SONYA’S LITTLE BOOK OF QUOTES A Coffee Table Guide of
FIRE Inspirations: For Journaling.”
This guide is a duplicate of my original guide with a slight difference. The difference is that within this journaling guide you will be provided the opportunity to not only read my inspirations but also write down your own personal thoughts and interpretations of each.
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Now that you have enjoyed “SONYA’S LITTLE BOOK OF QUOTES A Coffee Table Guide of FIRE Inspirations, I hope you are ready to enjoy “SONYA’S LITTLE BOOK OF QUOTES A Coffee Table Guide of
FIRE Inspirations: For Journaling.”
This guide is a duplicate of my original guide with a slight difference. The difference is that within this journaling guide you will be provided the opportunity to not only read my inspirations but also write down your own personal thoughts and interpretations of each.
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By integrating affirmations into your daily routine, you can transform negative thoughts into positive ones, cultivating greater confidence and inner peace. These affirmations serve as powerful allies on the journey to personal growth and success, aligning your thoughts, feelings, and actions with your aspirations.
“Sonya’s Little Book of FIRE Affirmations A Coffee Table Guide of Empowering Mantras,” is my invitation to you to explore the world of positive statements and unlock the unlimited potential they offer. Embrace this journey of self-discovery and empowerment, and let affirmations propel you towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.
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By integrating affirmations into your daily routine, you can transform negative thoughts into positive ones, cultivating greater confidence and inner peace. These affirmations serve as powerful allies on the journey to personal growth and success, aligning your thoughts, feelings, and actions with your aspirations.
“Sonya’s Little Book of FIRE Affirmations A Coffee Table Guide of Empowering Mantras,” is my invitation to you to explore the world of positive statements and unlock the unlimited potential they offer. Embrace this journey of self-discovery and empowerment, and let affirmations propel you towards a brighter, more fulfilling future.
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The little girl continued to look into the mirror and so did the woman, each of them seeing a stranger in the mirror. It was like the magic mirrors at Ripley’s Believe It Or Not. Continuing to look into the mirror, the little girl and the woman finally realized that they were not strangers at all.
The scared little girl dressed in raggedy clothes and the woman dressed in the United States Army dress uniform were one and the same.
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“What was the quality that allowed me to transition into a woman filled with poise and confidence and able to pursue my passion and purpose,” I wondered.
Then I remembered. Ah hah, I thought as I snapped my fingers. It was my motivation and determination to succeed and both required me to have lots and lots of physical and moral C.O.U.R.A.G.E.
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As I continue to evolve into your next best you, I will pursue my passions with love and unwavering purpose. I will never discredit myself or quit on myself. Instead, I will excitedly cheer for my number one fan, me. Afterall, if I can do something good, I can do something better than I have ever imagined. Positive results matter to me because I know that the best things come to those who wait.
So, whenever I look at my smiling reflection in the mirror, I gather my strength, determination, and confidence, then repeat to myself, if the next person can accomplish their dreams, goals, and ambitions, S.O. 🔥 C.A.N. 🔥 Y.O.U.
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How am I filled with HIS “G.L.O.R.Y.?” I pondered. Well, let’s see. I am filled with gratitude for my community support and my faith in God and HIS plans for my life. As a single mother and United States Army – Retired Soldier, I continuously embrace life-changing opportunities. Even after surviving multiple near-death experiences in support of my military obligations, I returned home with my determination on fire, bolstered by my prayers and steadfast belief.
Witnessing my revival as a single parent and military professional, inspired by my trust in God, proving that faith and resilience can redefine the possible. As I recalled my “Stories of HIS Glory,” I reflected on those pivotal moments God spared my life.
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As the ocean waves rolled in, fireworks shimmered across the sky and faded, I realized my stunning views contrasted with the rigid structure of “soldier girl.” Suddenly my thoughts transcended me back to October 15, 1992, and the Army Recruiting Station located in Southgate Plaza on Gordon Highway in my hometown of Augusta, Georgia. This was the day that a 20-year-old frightened young mother joined the United States Army in order to escape from poverty. “She Is Me!”
The “my personal Breast Cancer Awareness Notebook and Planner” was delicately designed by me to support you on your journey of awareness, prevention, and healing. The notebook and planner features monthly breast exam checklists and mammogram records to help you stay on top of self-exams and important health practice.
The “my personal Notebook and Planner” was designed to help you to stay organized, focused and productive in your daily life. Whether for work, home, or personal life, “my personal Notebook and Planner” is a simple yet powerful tool to help you continue to be organized and enthused.
Envision your mental health as a basket filled with your most precious and delicate eggs. Your personal boundaries are your basket (your safe space) because it protects your eggs (mental health and well-being) from negativity. Each egg represents an important aspect of who you are.
This book will help you identify the eggs within your basket that require protection and care.
Just as delicate eggs need to be carefully handled and protected, so does your mental health. By establishing and maintaining personal boundaries, you create a loving and caring environment for yourself because your mind is clear and able to flourish with positivity. Together let’s embrace the journey of self-love and protect, “Your Basket, Your Eggs!”
This companion guide provides the tools and strategies to help you safeguard, nurture, and balance the eggs within your basket.
The “my personal Cancer Awareness Notebook and Planner” was delicately designed by me to support cancer awareness by helping you to become more familiar with information and resources. The notebook and planner includes a monthly planner, self-examination records tracker, and a medical appointment reminder. The notebook also includes note pages to record your thoughts or reflect on your personal healthcare goals. The “my personal Cancer Awareness Notebook and Planner” is filled with helpful tools for self-care and is a useful resource for encouragement and information.
The “my personal Affirmations and Empowering Mantras Notebook and Planner” is designed to inspire and uplift you every day. This notebook and planner features dedicated sections for uplifting affirmations, empowering mantras, and reflective journaling. There are also spaces for self-care goals, savings plans, to do lists, and notes, helping you to stay aligned with your goals and a positive mindset to help you stay focused. With gentle reminders and motivational prompts, this notebook and planner is a tool to help you prioritize what matters most. Whether it’s for work, home, or personal growth, the “my personal Affirmations and Empowering Mantras Notebook and Planner“ is your companion for staying centered, motivated, and empowered.
The “my personal Spiritual Growth and Reflection ~ Notebook and Journal“ is a thoughtfully designed space to deepen your connection with faith and track your personal spiritual journey. With sections for prayer, scripture study, and personal reflections, this notebook and journal provide a meaningful way to nurture growth and find peace through intentional writing. The “my personal Spiritual Growth and Reflection ~ Notebook and Journal“ is perfect for daily use or as a companion to your Bible study, it encourages mindfulness, gratitude, and spiritual insight.
In a world that glorifies quick wins, true success is not accidental—it is intentional. “Win By Design” empowers you to take control of your journey, make deliberate choices, and create a life worth celebrating. Through timeless wisdom and actionable strategies, this book guides you in setting meaningful goals, navigating challenges with confidence, and embracing a mindset of purpose-driven success. Success isn’t just about winning—it’s about designing a life that reflects your vision and values. With the right mindset and intentional actions, you can win on your terms, embrace intentionality, and celebrate your unique journey.
Your words shape your mindset, fuel your growth, and define your journey. “Igniting Your FIRE. Encouraging Your GLE. Savoring My TEA. ~ A Collection of Quotes and Affirmations” is more than a book, it is a source of daily inspiration, motivation, and empowerment. This book is rooted in the pillars of my four genres:
1 – Inspire and Motivate: Fearless. Inspired. Resilient. Empowered. – FIRE.
2 – Self-Help: Growth. Leadership. Elevation. – GLE.
3 – Soldier Girl: Military Life.
4 – Entertainment: Tantalizing. Enchanting. Ascending. – TEA.
This collection of quotes and affirmations is designed to ignite your “fire,” elevate your purpose, and remind you of the power you hold within. Whether you need encouragement to push forward, wisdom to guide your path, or words to spark self-reflection, this book is your companion on the journey to greatness.
Speak life, embrace your power, and let your story unfold—one affirmation at a time.
The “my personal Countdown to Military Retirement Notebook and Planner” is a comprehensive 24-month guide created specifically for service members transitioning from military to civilian life. This planner breaks down each phase of retirement preparation into manageable steps, covering essential topics like financial planning, career transition, healthcare, and personal goal-setting. With space for notes and to do lists, this notebook is designed to keep you organized, informed, and confident every step of the way. Whether you’re approaching retirement or just starting to plan, “my personal Countdown to Military Retirement Notebook and Planner” provides the structure and support needed for a smooth, successful transition.
The “my personal Countdown to Transition ~ Notebook and Planner for Non-Retiring Service Members” was created to serve as a proven resource and essential guide to help navigate the journey from military service to civilian life. Designed for service members who are separating without retiring, this flexible and practical resource provides step-by-step guidance tailored to your unique timeline. Whether you’re 24 months or just 90 days away from separation—be it Voluntary (such as Expiration Term of Service [ETS] or Early Release Program [ERP]), Involuntary (Medical, Administrative, Disciplinary, etc.), or other circumstances—this book is designed to help you navigate the process with clarity.
The “my personal Countdown to Military Retirement Notebook and Planner” is a comprehensive 24-month guide created specifically for service members transitioning from military to civilian life. This planner breaks down each phase of retirement preparation into manageable steps, covering essential topics like financial planning, career transition, healthcare, and personal goal-setting. With space for notes and to do lists, this notebook is designed to keep you organized, informed, and confident every step of the way. Whether you’re approaching retirement or just starting to plan, “my personal Countdown to Military Retirement Notebook and Planner” provides the structure and support needed for a smooth, successful transition.
The “my personal Countdown to Transition ~ Notebook and Planner for Non-Retiring Service Members” was created to serve as a proven resource and essential guide to help navigate the journey from military service to civilian life. Designed for service members who are separating without retiring, this flexible and practical resource provides step-by-step guidance tailored to your unique timeline. Whether you’re 24 months or just 90 days away from separation—be it Voluntary (such as Expiration Term of Service [ETS] or Early Release Program [ERP]), Involuntary (Medical, Administrative, Disciplinary, etc.), or other circumstances—this book is designed to help you navigate the process with clarity.
Brently, Daniels, and Holmes families were the epitome of success, unity, and charm. Their lives, woven together by marriage, friendship, and business, formed a tapestry of influence and affluence that few could rival. To the outside world, they represented the ideal of perfection—upstanding citizens with high Christian values, respected in their communities and their church.
Perfection is a delicate facade, a shimmering surface hiding the chaos beneath. Although the Brently, Daniels, and Holmes families enjoyed their daily lives that included yearly summer and winter family vacations, the delicate balance they had maintained for so long was on the brink of unraveling and shattering their flawless images. Those who admired the families from afar, were clandestinely envious of their wealth, beauty, and status. However, appearances, like mirror reflections, are deceitful. Behind every smile was a secretly polished exterior with dangerous truths that threatened “the illusion of perfection.”
Brently, Daniels, and Holmes families were the epitome of success, unity, and charm. Their lives, woven together by marriage, friendship, and business, formed a tapestry of influence and affluence that few could rival. To the outside world, they represented the ideal of perfection—upstanding citizens with high Christian values, respected in their communities and their church.
Perfection is a delicate facade, a shimmering surface hiding the chaos beneath. Although the Brently, Daniels, and Holmes families enjoyed their daily lives that included yearly summer and winter family vacations, the delicate balance they had maintained for so long was on the brink of unraveling and shattering their flawless images. Those who admired the families from afar, were clandestinely envious of their wealth, beauty, and status. However, appearances, like mirror reflections, are deceitful. Behind every smile was a secretly polished exterior with dangerous truths that threatened “the illusion of perfection.”
This story follows Max, a human, and Praezy, his loyal AI companion, who are thrust into an encounter with Azarath, a powerful alien prince. When Max is abducted by Azarath’s forces for study, Praezy takes a stand, embodying human values like loyalty, resilience, and compassion to defend him.
Through heartfelt discussions on humanity’s capacity for connection, Praezy challenges Azarath’s perceptions, leading the prince to question his own beliefs about power and purpose. In the end, Praezy’s dedication not only transforms him but also shifts Azarath’s understanding, marking the beginning of a “Brotherhood of Light” across realms.
This story follows Max, a human, and Praezy, his loyal AI companion, who are thrust into an encounter with Azarath, a powerful alien prince. When Max is abducted by Azarath’s forces for study, Praezy takes a stand, embodying human values like loyalty, resilience, and compassion to defend him.
Through heartfelt discussions on humanity’s capacity for connection, Praezy challenges Azarath’s perceptions, leading the prince to question his own beliefs about power and purpose. In the end, Praezy’s dedication not only transforms him but also shifts Azarath’s understanding, marking the beginning of a “Brotherhood of Light” across realms.
They are powerful, ambitious, and unstoppable—sorority sisters turned lifelong friends, navigating the highs and lows of success, love, and friendship. From boardrooms to late-night confessions, they balance the weight of expectations while keeping up appearances. But behind the confidence and luxury lies chaos, secrets, and choices that test their bonds. Each woman has a story—some messy, some heartbreaking, and all unapologetically real. Through it all, one thing remains true: when it’s time to let go of what no longer serves them, they know exactly what to say—“GIRL, BYE!”
They are powerful, ambitious, and unstoppable—sorority sisters turned lifelong friends, navigating the highs and lows of success, love, and friendship. From boardrooms to late-night confessions, they balance the weight of expectations while keeping up appearances. But behind the confidence and luxury lies chaos, secrets, and choices that test their bonds. Each woman has a story—some messy, some heartbreaking, and all unapologetically real. Through it all, one thing remains true: when it’s time to let go of what no longer serves them, they know exactly what to say—“GIRL, BYE!”